Is YOUR Child Ready for a Dog?

By: Shannon Emmanuel  

Are you considering buying a dog for your child or children?

Before you do, take a moment to evaluate your family and determine
if your children are ready for a dog. Here are some questions you
might use to help you decide if buying a dog is right for your
family.

Babies and Toddlers

Is this your first dog? Do you have older children as well? Why are
you getting a dog now?

These three questions will help you to consider whether you have the
knowledge concerning the time and effort required to care for a dog.
Dogs are a big responsibility and if you have not been solely
responsible for a dog previously you may find the work and time
involved in training, feeding, grooming and playing to be more than
you can handle while caring for a young baby or toddler.

Your young children may benefit from having a dog from a young age.
They will certainly develop very strong attachments to the family
pet. But young children are not very trustworthy to be left alone
around a dog and they are not aware enough to desire a pet. Not only
will they do just as well without a dog, but the extra caution
needed while young children are present may cause you more stress
and frustration than waiting until they are older.

If you are deciding to get a dog because you feel it is a normal
part of family life and you want to `complete' the package while
your child is young, do not rush into purchasing a dog right away.
For the various reasons above, a dog should be considered a major
decision and waiting one year or more may be best for your
situation.

If the dog is to be a companion to a mom who will now be home alone
with her child for long periods of time, maybe an older dog will
provide the needed company while avoiding the extra work of training
a puppy.



Preschoolers and Young Children

If your family is established and you are not expecting to add a
baby into the mix, you still need to consider a few things before
getting a dog.

Are you aware of the time required? Can you afford a dog? Will your
children be safe?

The work of training (especially house training) and caring for a
puppy can easily take several hours of your day. Depending on your
method of obedience and house training you should consider if you
have the energy to deal with a puppy consistently and with urgency
while implementing house rules at this crucial stage.

Young children and preschoolers may find it exciting to help you
feed, wash and walk the dog. However, children this young are still
likely to startle or maul a puppy which may lead to accidental
injuries – harming both the puppy and the child.

The cost of owning a dog must also be considered. Vet fees, adoption
or purchase costs, licensing, food and grooming should be accounted
for before going to pick the dog out. Doing your homework now will
avoid unpleasant disappointment in the future.

If you feel that your life is free enough of distractions that you
will look forward to the temporary unsettling of bringing a puppy
home, you may well find this a wonderful, curious age that will be
delighted with a puppy. You will need diligence in watching both the
puppy and children until training has been established. You will
also need to give your children reminders about how they must treat
the puppy to prevent accidents.

Older Children and Teens

Some families choose to wait until children are older before
bringing a dog home. In many cases they feel this will be an aid in
teaching their children responsibility. But what questions should
parents of older children ask before getting a dog?

Who is responsible for the dog? How long will the dog be with you?

In all cases the parents must ultimately accept the responsibility
of caring for the dog, both financially and physically. Although
your pre-teen may insist on his or her desire to take full
responsibility for walking, feeding and playing with the dog, you as
a parent must be willing to take this on if your child fails to keep
to his or her word.

It is a big responsibility to take on a pet like a dog. They are far
more demanding on your attention than cats or other pets. They are
social animals and you will be doing great harm if you leave your
dog tied up outside for days at a time, ignored and unhappy.

If you still choose to get a dog as a family pet you should consider
the future care of the dog. A dog generally has a life span of 10 –
15 years, depending on the breed. If you are getting a dog as a
companion for an older child or a teenager who will ultimately care
for the dog during the years to come when your child leaves home,
goes to college or gets married?

While all of these questions should assist you in determining if
your family should get a dog right now, it is also wise to find out
more about the kind of dog that would best suit your family. All the
work you do beforehand will help you make a choice that everyone
will be able to enjoy!



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